Not really interested in dating lost interest dating
Just a few months ago, I told a perfectly nice guy who was interested in me that the reason I wasn't being super-responsive was because “I'm not looking for anything serious.”Literally the night after I sent that text, I fell madly in love with a new guy with whom I would drop everything to be in a relationship. Don't worry, karma got me back when a guy I liked then used the “not ready for a relationship right now” line on me.All of a sudden my own tried-and-true excuse sounded like the biggest f*cking load of bullshit I'd ever heard.
–Dustin Hey there Dustin, This means the moment some other guy dresses better, has more connections, a better time piece or an even more outrageous car, she’s going to lose interest in you and chase the shinier objects.
First and foremost, look out for major shifts in communication between the two of you.
Once you’ve identified some communication changes, assess his actions, and then start addressing the issue by talking to him, seeking advice from others, and focusing on yourself.
I know full well “I'm not looking for a relationship right now” is code for “I'm not looking for a relationship right now with YOU.” But also, “Please don't be alarmed if we flash forward three months, and I'm in a full-blown relationship with a girl I like.”Turns out it's pretty painful when some douche tells me he's not looking for anything serious, so we keep “casually” hooking up, until suddenly, BAM!
He's in a serious relationship with someone who apparently offered something I couldn't.